I didn’t like Malibu.
Or Bacardi Rum.
Not even with a coke.
I rather sat on the couch with a book than in a bar with my class mates. I was boring.
Reframe: How to get a different view on your problem – and on yourself
How do you tell your client what you really think – without losing him?
‘Certainty is the enemy of change,’ says psychotherapist Esther Perel. ‘Therapists bring uncertainty in the conversation.’ We do the same when we help our clients with a change question.