‘Certainty is the enemy of change,’ says psychotherapist Esther Perel. ‘Therapists bring uncertainty in the conversation.’ We do the same when we help our clients with a change question.
How to get on the same page – even if you think you already are
When I was eight years old, I had a goldfish. Every time I saw him surface, I gave him extra food. I thought he was hungry. Now I know better.